Falling in love is so easy… but sooner or later, love can start feeling like hard work.

In all relationships it’s totally normal and completely inevitable that problems will arise.

But (contrary to popular belief) it’s not our relationship or marriage problems themselves that are usually to blame.

It’s what partners do about problems that determines whether their relationship thrives… or falls short of what it could have been.

Sunshine Holistic Counselling delivers results for couples dealing with:

Conflicts and misunderstandings

Lost intimacy, friendship, and happiness

Confusion: “We love each other but can’t make it work”

Affairs (past, present, or thoughts of a future affair)

FIFO lifestyles

Changes in family dynamics (blended and step families)

Separation and divorce

Co-parenting after separation or divorce


Avoid misunderstandings by communicating with clarity

Stop repeated cycles of conflict

Solve your problems in ways that actually bring you closer together

Protect your relationship with healthy boundaries

Regain friendship, intimacy, and fun

Explore, grow, and evolve in your spiritual practices together

Enjoy life knowing your relationship is strong and resilient

Co-parent successfully before, during, or after separation or divorce

If you’re looking for couples or marriage counselling, look for a counsellor who does much more than pass the tissues while listening to how you feel, or set homework tasks that require you to be nicer to each other.

It’s not that these things aren’t helpful – it’s just that they aren’t helpful enough to create permanent, positive relational change.

To create permanent, positive relational change you need an understanding of the unique dynamic that is playing out between you. Plus you’ll need an understanding about what, specifically, needs to change, and how, specifically, to change it.

The good news is that turning a troubled relationship around is completely possible. It takes hard work – all of which is going to be up to you. But the counsellor you choose will also play a crucial role in helping you reach your goals.

Over three decades I’ve developed a unique approach to turning troubled relationships around and helping couples create great relationships that truly thrive.

My unique approach includes assessment and diagnosis of unhealthy relational dynamics, communication and conflict resolution skills training, targeted relationship coaching, and development of openhearted connection. It’s the best way to equip you with the strategies and skills you need to create a healthy relationship that truly thrives.

Every therapy session is targeted to the unique needs of each couple.

My COUPLES TOOLKIT program equips couples like you with the insights, skills, and tools you need to build a loving, resilient, and happy partnership that truly thrives. You’ll receive new skills training, written resources and worksheets, and lots of practical tips: all designed to ensure immediate positive change as well as long lasting positive results.

When it comes to relationships, it’s true that “a stitch in time saves nine”.

If your relationship isn’t how you’d like it to be, don’t wait until it’s even less so.

With Sunshine Holistic Counselling, you’ll soon be relating in new and empowering ways and enjoying working together to create a relationship that truly thrives.

Contact Pamela and let’s get started.