Relationships are challenging and when differences arise, it's really important to handle them in a way that helps your relationship grow and thrive....
The FIFO lifestyle has its benefits, but when it comes to relationships, there’s no doubt that the FIFO lifestyle brings with it a whole new degree of difficulty. As if keeping a relationship on track isn’t difficult enough!...
When you feel angry or stressed, do you act like it’s a licence to behave badly in your relationship?...
Do you honour your relationship and keep it safe, even when you’re arguing? Or do you argue in a way that threatens your relationship security? That kicks it when it’s down?...
All couples argue. So we may as well learn how to do it well. Many of the couples I see in practice don’t know how to argue well. So it makes me wonder how the rest of you are doing it....
All of us make mistakes in our relationships. We hurt our partners. It’s inevitable. In a healthy relationship culture, it’s rare. And in a relationship that’s less healthy, mistakes and hurts unfortunately happen more often....
Falling in love and being in relationships can at times do crazy things to the way people think. Rational, sensible people with rational, sensible thinking habits can get a little tangled up in thinking habits that aren’t rational and sensible at all....
All couples argue, but not all couples argue well. Having a healthy discussion rather than a destructive argument takes skill. Here are some of the strategies that make a hugely positive difference to couples ready to step away from destructive arguments and into healthier ways...
Relationships are tricky, and it’s sometimes hard to know how to stop being confused about a relationship problem. When things get tough it’s normal to be flooded by overwhelming conflicting emotions, questions, and doubts....
Sometimes, when I work with couples, I hear: "BUT WE ALREADY COMMUNICATE!"...
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